Life is lived according to a set of rules. We draw our circle of influence and circle of love. First comes family in both the circles-circle of influence(we get influenced since kid stage to adult stage by them. We follow them and learn. so, we follow them for life..most of the time). And circle of Love( They were the ones who held a baby in hand, nourished him and grew him to a certain stage). and that is what we start following.
But there comes a time when our own thinking develops. We become teenagers. We start finding out life for ourselves. And there starts the confusion. As we grow up, we start living for ourselves but that link with our memories remain. For some, that link is lesser and for some, its their only life.
So, how much of that link should be cherished? With friends, with family, immediate family and distant family.
That link should be cherished for life because it teaches us universality. It teaches us to go beyond ourselves and work for others. To Love others. That’s why God always encourages loving your family, your friends, your next to kin.
In some situations, though, we have to choose between two. To do the right thing, we have to decipher which path to take. Shall I only do what my friends/family asks me to or shall i do what I feel like is the right thing to do. In those situations, always remember the universality of your existence. You are meant to Love all is the universal law. If my family is corrupt, I have to follow them and become corrupt is being on the wrong side of existence. Even if they are selfish, they are mine so all follow them as well, is being on the wrong side of existence. And that is when even good souls start suffering internally. Be free to choose what your heart desires.
According to Universal laws, Universality comes first, then family/friends. It is important to follow moral values, values of taking care of others. In the moments of suspicion, always follow the golden rule: Universality first. The world is existing because of universal people, people helping you on the streets, people giving you water and food in times of need. Those are the ones making this world flourish. If we let go of that even for some moments, our soul suffers for those few moments.
So keep living happily ever after. With your family and Next to kin and most importantly, with God on your side.
Happy Living!!!! Hari Om♥
